As parents, we make countless short-term decisions based on immediate potential consequences and outcomes. We choose toys that we think will fascinate, and foods that will satisfy. Our decisions and responses are often simple, even reflexive. Then, there are other types of decisions. We may know the response to obvious needs – a tired child [...]
I consider art mediums, materials, and toys to be resources for play. They are the props and tools that children can use to transform their ideas into something they can hold onto. In this tangible state, children can suppose, test, and re-evaluate their ideas. Children do not need loads of toys for play, but [...]
Starting a collection of natural materials sounds easy enough. Take a walk, pick up a few things . . . I figured I’d have a buckets of things in no time. I didn’t realize that 95% of the time the treasures the girls gathered were rocks. Rocks are great, they just did not make [...]
At a Kid’s Health and Fitness Fair in our town this weekend, Greysen was literally stopped in her tracks by a trio of young female dancers that offered her an information card about their dance company. She stood after they left commenting on their dresses. Interest piqued, we watched their performance. As we [...]
The Infant/Toddler Art Group is Back! Now that the weather is more predictable, I plan on hosting an art group each month. This month instead art as usual, a friend had the inspired idea of a sensory “art” group. She provided most of the sensory bins but I brought a couple too. [...]
Knowing that Greysen is in the “why?” stage, I did a quick search on the farm that we would be visiting with friends. I quickly learned the names of the animals we would see, and memorized a few key facts, so that I could carry on a conversation with her should she be interested. [...]
Occasionally, I read stories about a parent who comes across some other parent in a moment of desperation. They grab our attention by their yelling, shaming, or general parenting breakdowns. What about all of those other parent moments? Ever catch a stranger just being an awesome parent? I’m mostly surrounded by [...]
What do Reggio Emilia art experiences look like in the first three years? When I first started learning about Reggio Emilia’s approach, most of the project work I was reading about and had seen occured with preschool-aged children. I had a hard time finding examples of what infant and toddler play with art materials [...]
We’ve had some warm days here in California. All other plans have been put on hold so that we can spend some time by the river. Our only agenda was to have an adventure. Okay, and maybe enjoy some sensory play. Natural things like water, mud, sand, and flowers in limitless amounts. Only hands, [...]
Like so many things in our lives, our daily “Have a good, fun, day!” routines with Mike have changed as the girls do. Young children may be ready to say good-bye one day and may hold on tight to you the next. Even within healthy attachments and positive environments, children may feel ready to [...]
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